Hmm... Do you ever wonder what are human's first reactions when they see somebody that is better then them?
Be it better then me acadamically, socially, physically or spiritually, as long as a person is better then me, I show that person a certain due amount of respect...
But I notice that I tend to do something very wierd when I see somebody that is better looking then me... (not to say that I am VERY good looking like that... pfff... I am jus very self-conscious of every action that I make)
Senario:
1) Andrew is walking down from Heeren towards Plaza Singapura (basically, because I do not know why.. ALL the good looking guys seem to be taking strolls up and down from that particular area)
2) He sees a good looking guy walking towards his direction...
(definition of good-looking
- Flawless complexion
- Nice hairstyle
- Balanced physique
- Toned (muscle-wise)
- Speaks english fluently
- Poises himself in any fashion befitting of a STRAIGHT guy)
3) This catches Andrew's eyes, and Andrew starts to wonder/gaze/muse/envy that guy. This goes on for awhile*, till it has passes Andrew's 180 deegree line of sight rule.
(*note that the timing varies depending on how good looking the guy is - sometimes, the 180 deegree rule is broken even. If so, that guy must be REALLY super good lookign....)
4) ...... halfway while Andrew is oogling... the guy notices him. (arrgh...)
5) Andrew's gaze is directed TOWARDS THE GROUND as he desperately tries to tear his eyes away from the hunk/adonis/cutie/whatever.
ok... I'll stop here. Because this is the funny part...
Why of all things, towards the ground?
Its not a habit, as I do not do that when I see good looking gals, nor when I see somebody who is better then me acadamically/spiritually etc. It only happens when I am looking at somebody who is much more good looking then me (for definition of good looking, its up above)
Explode. There was one time when I couldnt tear my eyes away from this guy on the MRT. He was like SO good looking.... no joke. Julian Hee can eat his dust. But my centre-vision kept refocusing around him. And when he looked back, I tried damm hard to look at something/somebody else, but failed...
Then he smiled at me =X
I know he is straight. Because my inbuilt radar didnt issue the slightest warning.
but it was still enough to make me turn a slight shade of pink..... arrgh.. bet you guys never seen me like that before..
But why do human instincts make my eyes turn down towards the ground?
My only reason I can come up with is that I give people with good looks, a very high amount of respect.
Firstly, because, without knowing a person acadmaically or socially, you judge a person base on their looks, (aka First Impression). This is the foundation for almost any type of activity that per-chance, might occur in the future.
This is why people with good looks usually have the largest retinue of friends at the fastest possible time. (note that this does not mean they have the longest periods of friendships)
Thus, conclusion :
For the best possible social life, it is highly essential to have 1) Good looks, 2) Character.
If you have this both, even acadamic-wise, NOBODY will be able to stand a chance against you.
... of course you must refrain from falling into the autistic categary also lah! (lolz.. Ryan)
haha... what I would do to make myself become the 10/10 guy I always dreamt of becoming....
lolz....
that day might come, it might not.. but I will always be trying...
Once a metrosexual, always a metrosexual...
